Be aware of Childhood programming within a relationship

Excerpt of my DVD “What Men should know about Women”
Childhood-programming trigger within a relationship certain memories of dependency, fear, love, abuse and so forth. Especially within a relationship, it becomes apparent how much the childhood programming is in command of over our joy, partner-choice, and decision-making. Within a relationship, we believe that a repeat of scenarios of our childhood will take place. That is why, sometimes, it is not what we think it is. Thus, we need to learn to ask more questions.
Counsellor Norbert Henke, Dipl. Pro. Counselling, likes to help men with women to build confidence and happy relationships. Go to Frohmood.com for more info.

LOVE is the foundation of a happy relationship

Excerpt of my DVD “What Men should know about Women”
A happy relationship is not a matter of luck, but more a result of good mental health, compatibility among the partners and hard work through communication. Love is the driving force, which cements the relationship. However, this love must be unconditional love. The partner cannot become the only source of love, acknowledgement, and recognition. (Sex is not a source of love). This will make the partner very dependent. The idea is to develop love yourself through mental and physical exercises – daily, weekly or every time we feel like it, because loving is a skill, which can be learned. Empathy, tolerance, and compassion are parts of love. Both partners must give these freely within a relationship.
Counsellor Norbert Henke, Dipl. Pro. Counselling, likes to help men with women to build confidence and happy relationships. Go to Frohmood.com for more info.

Hands on therapy with an ugly Huntsman spider

Finding this ugly spider on the wall of my apartment was an excellent opportunity to decrease my fear of spiders. I am not really afraid of them, but I not like them close to me. The idea it running over my feet while I am watching TV is rather disquieting. These spiders are extremely fast, to catch them gets my heart racing. Anyhow, once I let the spider go, 5 seconds later, two birds came out of no-where and made a meal out of it. I felt quite sad that I was responsible for the demise of that creature. Counsellor Norbert Henke, Dipl. Pro. Counselling, likes to help men with women to build confidence and happy relationships. Go to Frohmood.com for more info.