STOP your Self-harm, Avoid Ruining your Life, Business, Relationships

last updated 26 June 2019, Sydney

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Make Better Decisions

from your difficult situation

yourself from Misery, Worries, Torment, Distress

from your tormentor, bully

Are you distressed, unhappy, ruined,devastated, worried?

Is your subconscious mind hurting your Business, Life & Relationships?

Are your emotions, beliefs, insecurities, attitudes, behaviours causing you Self-harm (-endangerment), Abuse, Ruin?

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Did events (e.g.divorce), accidents or bad people threw your life into – emotionally / financially – turmoil ? Feeling like being punched in the ‘guts’?

Do Worries/ Trouble/ Distress drive you crazy / make you panicky / keep you awake at night / make you lose control with anger / prevents you from eating / give you stomach ulcers, etc.?

Get rid of  your mental Torment(or)

Survive the shock, agony, sadness, etc.

Vent your  anger, hate constructively through counselling

Start developing your Mental Manager

Need help fast?

  Call us +61(0)405 833 415 or send us an email, and we will try to counsel you the same day, if not, the next day.

Develop the important Mental Manager within your head:     


  • Not to endanger yourself further
  • Protect yourself against hidden dangers
  • Make smart decisions
  • Become informed to be Safe
  • Stop further self-harm & avoid hidden Ruin
  • Stand Up for your Rights
  • Fight back – mentally’ – Regain Quality of life, happiness, strength, resilience, etc.

Don't risk your life, business with a harmful person, partner

good work atmosphereImprove the professional relationship with your clients / customers, staff, colleagues

Make smart(er) decisions

Happy family

Improve your relationship at home with your wife / husband, and children

Confront and tackle self-harming emotions, beliefs, behaviours, etc.

The developed Mental Manager functions as a decision-maker, protector, love-giver, healer within your subconscious

Consequently it can also produce feelings within you of:

  • Inner-Success
  • Make smart(er) decisions
  • Develop your true potentialCounsellors
  • Giving empathy to customers, staff, people, etc.
  • Build better relationships
  • Feeling safe
  • Inner-peace
  • Expressing your own inner-love
  • Deep happiness
  • Healing / convalesce
  • Protect against bad influences
  • Have a sense of belonging

just to mention a few

Why do we concentrate on CEO’s, business-owners?

They are leaders, ambitious, hard-working, focused, take great responsibilities, and so on.

This can lead to self-harm (self-endangerment) as they can often become isolated and lonely, they can stand under great mental pressure and can become increasingly out-of-touch with emotional / psychological needs of employees, wife/husband and their own.

Every man and woman, business-owner, professional, academic, CEO, etc. should develop their own Mental Manager in their heads.

This is important and vital for the journey through life.CEO The subconscious mind with its learned childhood fears & traumas; its programming, dysfunctional beliefs and so on, often produces too powerful emotions, even life-threatening emotions. We need extra help !


Therefore, we need to develop our important Mental Manager through counselling to:

Never hit a woman- NeverStop the Abuse, Self-harm, Ruin, Domestic violence

Stop your fear, pain, anger,shame, mental stress, etc.

Stop damage & (hidden) financial ruin

Start managing difficult, even dangerous emotions / situations

Start your protection and healing

Start asking for help to make smart(er) decisions

Develop your Mental Manager

Feeling tormented & distressed?

Fed up of being abused?

Frustrated with the Domestic violence, the pain of nasty surprises, deception, bullying, manipulation, etc?

Tired of Abuse, Self-harm such as emotional pain, financial ruin, wasting time, money & effort within relationships or at work?

Imagine you could transform your life

Imagine you could create happiness, enjoy a good Quality of Life

Imagine that your heart is full with love & joy, producing good health

Image you could live & work in peace, free of pain, stress and pressures

How to prevent your worst nightmare?

Chained up

Throw away the chains of risk-taking, trial & error, possible ruin, abuse and self-harm

Free yourself from the psychological prison of insecurities, shyness, emotional pain, anger, guilt, mental pressures, hatred, domestic violence and self-harm

a happy Woman

Start enjoying life again with the sweet feelings of happiness and confidence

Smile to yourself about your emotional success

Don't be embarrassed to talk

"Let the love for your life & business, the love for success, the desire to enjoy life to make the decision to let your Mental Manager grow".

Become confident to detect deceptions, ruse, etc.

Become confident to stop abuse and self-harm by making smart decisions in order to protect your hard earned assets, quality of life, sanity, children, etc.

Become also confident to handle gullibility, naivety, excessive romantic feelings, to stand up for your (emotional) rights, to get rid off emotional pain & suffering, mental pressures /stress, to manage domestic violence, to repair a broken relationship

We make it very, very easy for you !It works !

No driving to the counselling practice,

No annoying questions from receptionist

No embarrassment

We use Skype (web-camera) for counselling, therefore

stay at home or in your office

Make smart decisions

What if you do nothing?

You could lose everything,- including your life.A group of women

For that reason,allow your Mental Manager to grow through counselling.

Change your attitudes, self-image, self-confidence, your emotions, your knowledge through counselling to prevent ruin, abuse, domestic violence and self-harm

Self-harm,- hidden, silent, unknown – (just to mention a few):

  • Naivety (trusting too easily, thus losing your assets to an unloving scheming scammer)

  • Anger, hatred resulting in ugly Domestic violence (out of anger: breaking the law, AVO, going to court / jail, etc.)

  • Crippling Financial ruin (e.g. gruelling court costs)

  • Neglecting Customers / clients rights

  • Infuriating, provoking & fighting with customers / clients/ staff

  • Lack of empathy towards the needs of customers, staff, colleagues

  • Wilfulness to ignore laws and a personal good conscience

  • Undeveloped personal potential due to bad self-image

  • Self-neglect (not standing up for your emotional / legal rights)

  • Bad partner-choices – e.g. dating a psychopath out of desperation

  • Naïve choice of lovers

  • Exploitation ( through bullying, sexual blackmail, deceptions, manipulations of a psychopath – partner or boss)

  • Unwanted pregnancies (e.g. paying high percentage of your income in child support)

  • Loss of family life through painful separation / divorce

  • (possible) PTSD ( post traumatic stress disorder) after a gruelling custody battle

  • Poisonous Suicidal thoughts

  • Great loss of Quality of Life, loss of employment, loss of personal potential, great unhappiness

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  • Wasting money, time and great efforts through a risky trial & error approach

Not to forget the improvements to your physical health

“Don’t put off your development, because ignoring, denying and retaliation to these painful feelings can often result in more emotional pain, anger, frustration, worries, stress, abuse, self-harm, domestic violence”

Have you being abused in a relationship and / or at work while still living with emotional pain, anger, hatred?a screaming woman

♦ Are you in despair, overcome by mental pressure(s), disabled by emotional pain?

♦ Do you –unknowingly- self-harm when searching for love within relationships or doing your best at work?

♦ Is your relationship filled with pain, fear, anger, violence?

Become Free

What would it take for you to seek help?

If you are (and /or have) been experiencing Abuse, Self-harm, Domestic violence in your life, and want to avoid possible ruin, don’t wait any longer.

“Develop the Mental Manager as quickly as possible”Businessman

Don’t become weaker, more vulnerable

Invest in your life and future.

  Make an appointment with us today or –even easier- send us SMS 0405 833 415 & we will call you back

Please note: Make sure you are safe ( away from the abuser) when you decide to change your life / seek help.

What is most important ?

You need to want to stop the Abuse, Self-harm and emotional pain

You need the desire to heal the pain and thus, change your life

You want to aspire to become- increasingly- confident to protect yourself against Abuse and Self-harm

Develop your Mental Manager within your subconscious to protect yourself

Protect yourself from further abuse, emotional pain, rage, ridicule, double-pain ( losing money and children), revengeful thoughts, loss of potential, etc.

Protect youprotect against harmrself from yourself (subconscious mind that produces Self-harm)

Protect your happiness, life, success, money, etc. from bullies, cruel scammers, gold-diggers control-freaks, sadists, damaging people with mental illness (personality disorders) such as narcissism, bi-polar, border-line, (undiagnosed) psychopaths, and so on

Subconscious mind within a brain

Millions of years of human evolution shaped the human subconscious mind to quickly escape from danger,such as, quickly recognising enemies faces, and also to ensure the survival of the human species through sex.

For the fortunate, the childhood was the cradle of good self-esteem, good self- preservation, good memories; for the unfortunate, it was a place of trauma, lack of love, neglect and may be (sexual) abuse.

Sadly, the human subconscious mind has not developed to automatically detect mental illness, a liar, gold-diggers, psychopaths, scammers, nor to make smart decisions when we feel ridiculed, screamed at, bullied and even when we become intoxicated with hot and passionate romantic & sexual emotions. Counselling

We need to obtain this information through counselling in order to develop our Mental Manager. so we are able to confront and tackle strong emotions and desires within ourselves which can lead to abuse, ruin, self-harm and domestic violence


Counselling Skype counselloris a MUST for everyone who is in emotional pain, lives with any type of mental pressures, who was abused in their childhood, relationship(s) and at work

Again, we make it very, very easy !

No driving to the practice, no annoying questions from receptionist, no embarrassment. We use Skype for counselling. So, stay at home or office.

We counsel via Skype:

Shy men & women who want to attract a partner

Angry / aggressive men & women who want to remove their tendency for domestic violence e.g. in order to keep their family

Bullied / submissive men & women who have difficulties to Stand Up for their emotional rights

Successful men & women who want to protect their emotional hearts, minds and bank accounts from being tricked

Inexperienced men & women who love to be in a relationship with a partner

Men & women who have a problem with their self-image and /or self-esteem, which effects their life, work, relationships.

Men & women who are too naïve, impulsive, gullible when interacting (romantically) with an attractive partner

Men & women who suffer from emotional pain, mental pressure, suicidal thoughts and are in urgent need for emotional help

Important to remember:

Instead that you hurt / ruin your life through Abuse and Self-harm, Ma rememberingfor example through a painful separation / divorce, gruelling custody battle, depression, suicide, intense emotional pain, financial ruin, etc, you must change your beliefs, attitudes and behaviour about yourself and when searching for love through counselling.

“Dedicating oneself to a great cause, taking responsibility, and gaining self-knowledge is the essence of being human.”

It feels good

Instead of Suffering, Abuse and Self-harm – Why not release the Good Force within you

How to develop the Mental Manager within your subconscious and heal the pain, protect yourself and become confident ?


YOU decide-out of pure self-interest – to UNSHACKLE yourself from self-harming beliefs and the effects of the abuser


Why should you change?

Self-protection through confidence

Release the good force within you

You are more then your previous mistakes

Invest into your life

Put passion into your life to get more out of your life

Heal your emotional pain

You feel happier and more content

You become emotional attractive to women

You feel more positive, optimistic, and energetic to obtain your goals

You become more loving, caring to your dream-woman and future children, i.e. increase their happiness

Liberate the potential of your mind

“Man does not simply exist but always decides what his existence will be, what he will become the next moment. By the same token, every human being has the freedom to change at any instant.”


What will you lose if you never change?

You could lose everything !!

If you do not change, you could be at risk of further pain, mental pressures, abuse and self-harm

Such as:

Your Mental manager stays small and underdevelop, scared and vulnerable.

Moreover it could create a painful self-destruction of self-esteem.

Your love- potential decreases by your subconscious negative programming

Bad judgement about other people’s intentions

Impaired self-fulfillment through bad decision-making about love, sex, partner’s love & sex, etc.

Leave yourself open to financial & psychological exploitation through gullibility, impulsiveness, love-addiction, etc.

Soul-destroying actions of retaliation against abuse through Domestic Violence, even Murder / Suicide

Painful unhappiness, loss of job, may be eating disorders, heart attacks and so on,

Separation, divorce followed often by financial ruin and loss of contact with your children



Wouldn’t it be nice to wake up with your dream partner without the risk of being abused?

Spending a weekend together, looking through shops, walking through nature, cooking dinner together, going to the movies, kissing, hugging, having fun together and so on.

Change to ‘Old’ you into the ‘New’ you through counselling, in other words:

Develop the Mental Manager within your head.

What value is my counselling service to you?

Our goals are to help you to:

Become safe and stay successful

Develop your Mental Manager within your subconscious

Protect yourself from harmful influences from your subconscious

Manage difficult, dangerous emotions/ situations

Handle anger, fear, emotional pain, shame, hatred, etc

Make smart(er) rational decisions

Develop true potential

Moreover, it helps you to learn to protect yourself against harmful beliefs within the subconscious,

Increase your Confidence to detect abusers, scammers, skillful manipulations, etc.

More courage to stand up for your (emotional) rights

Save money, time and effort by avoiding a risky trial and error approach

Better self-judging as-protection against financial abuse, bullying, blackmail, etc.

Make better partner-choices

Overcome shyness, fear, anger from past relationships

Heal your emotional pain effectively through professional guidance

Become streetwise to combat naivety

Release your inner-love to become emotional attractive

Become assertive to Stand Up for your Rights ( manage to say ” No” ) against partner(s), who want to intimidate you to gain control over you ( & your money)

Become happier, fulfilled within yourself as you start to develop your potential – in a constructive way


My counselling service

was created from many of my skills as a counsellor and from many of my own self-harming and often painful personal experiences of being abused

It is tailored to vulnerable clients

It is based on various psychology therapies.




My counselling service consists of three components you can choose from.Skype video counselling

1.) Counselling via Skype ( client- counsellor professional relationship)

2.) Our Recommendation via Skype (We listen to your concerns /situation; for example your partner deceived you. We suggest ideas of self-help;

3.) Email assistance: available after on session of counselling or recommendation.

Let us help you

If you are experiencing Pain, Abuse,Self-harm, Domestic violence in your your life and are overcome / disabled by emotional pain, anger, guilt, mental pressures, etc., don’t wait any longer.

Don’t become weaker, more vulnerable.

Invest in your life and future.Making an appointment

Make an appointment with us today or –even easier- send us SMS 0416 867 527, and we will call you back



PricesThe first 30 minutes of your first session are free.

One session of Counselling / Recommendation $ AUD 150.00 per hour

One Email assistance ( maxi. 500 words) $ AUD 55.00

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Counsellor Norbert Henke Dipl.Psy.Pro.counselling

I, Norbert Henke, am determined to create friendly high quality professional counselling service with clients via Skype to help you develop the New You

Become confident to change your life.

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How and why to repair your emotion after a divorce?

Excerpt of my DVD “What Men should know about Women”
Even I, a counsellor, is not free of pain and emotional disaster. Despite all the good intentions, it is sometimes not possible to make sense ‘out of life’. During a – often painful, dysfunctional- relationship, many beliefs about women, men, sex, and relationships have slowly developed in our minds. Some of our self-esteem has been eroded through pain and negativity. These beliefs create our emotions, which either give us love and energy or drain us through negativity. In my opinion, everyone was experienced a “dysfunctional” and painful relationship should seek counselling; just to ensure that the new relationship is free of emotional left-overs from the previous partner. Counsellor Norbert Henke, Dipl. Pro. Counselling, likes to help men with women to build confidence and happy relationships. Go to for more info.

Repairing our emotions. What does that mean?

Excerpt of my DVD “What Men should know about Women”
In order to explain this, let us look at a person whose soul is free and unrestricted. We might think that this person is very independent and happy, and we are mostly correct. So how did this person’s soul become free? This person had a childhood like all of us. He was told information about himself, his surroundings, and the world. Some info was correct, some was half-correct, some was false, and some was very damaging to his mind. Now this child grew into an adult, and his damaging child programming were still causing negative results in his life, such as poor self-esteem, anger, relationship breakdowns, etc. It becomes clear that repairing our emotions is an important and essential part for our self-development, as the goal is to gradually free our soul. Counsellor Norbert Henke, Dipl. Pro. Counselling, likes to help men with women to build confidence and happy relationships. Go to for more info.

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Anastasia, a Russian woman, is so kind to tell us her opinion. Beautiful women become more attracted to men who understand how a woman thinks and feels. Fools enter where angels fear to tread. In other words, without good information and preparations the risks can be high to repeat previous mistakes again. Knowing how women – Russian women – think and feel is a good way to reduce this risk. Counsellor Norbert Henke, Dipl. Pro. Counselling, and Olesya Pridannikova- Henke, a Russian woman, are enthusiastic to help men with Russian women through recommendation, information, consultation, and counselling.

Can a bald headed man be attracted to a woman?
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What do you think of a woman who lets her partner buy expensive rings / things he cannot afford?
Olesya, an authentic young Russian woman from the heart of the Ural Mountains in Russia answers a question, which many men will find very interesting. Listening to a woman’s opinion is very informative, because the understanding – how women think and feel – is an important part of relationship building, reduction of fear and development of trust. The idea to help men to understand women, especially Russian women, sprung to life after my gruelling divorce. My goal is to inform, because through information, we are able to make informed decisions and good decision-making is important for any man, in particular in regards to women, Russian women, and Internet dating.

Is it easy to sexually provoke a man?
Ekaterina, a Russian woman, tackles this question, which many men find rather interesting. Decision-making is very important, especially in the beginning of the relationship. No man wants to lose his girlfriend.
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