last updated 12 February 2019, Sydney
Make Better Decisions
from your difficult situation
yourself from Misery, Worries, Torment, Distress
from your tormentor, bully
Is your subconscious mind hurting your Business, Life & Relationships?
Are your emotions, beliefs, insecurities, attitudes, behaviours causing you Self-harm (-endangerment), Abuse, Ruin?
Did events (e.g.divorce), accidents or bad people threw your life into – emotionally / financially – turmoil ? Feeling like being punched in the ‘guts’?
Do Worries/ Trouble/ Distress drive you crazy / make you panicky / keep you awake at night / make you lose control with anger / prevents you from eating / give you stomach ulcers, etc.?
Get rid of your mental Torment(or)
Survive the shock, agony, sadness, etc.
Vent your anger, hate constructively through counselling
Start developing your Mental Manager
Call us +61(0)405 833 415 or send us an email, and we will try to counsel you the same day, if not, the next day.
Develop the important Mental Manager within your head:
- Not to endanger yourself further
- Protect yourself against hidden dangers
- Make smart decisions
- Become informed to be Safe
- Stop further self-harm & avoid hidden Ruin
- Stand Up for your Rights
- ‘Fight back – mentally’ – Regain Quality of life, happiness, strength, resilience, etc.
Make smart(er) decisions
Improve your relationship at home with your wife / husband, and children
Confront and tackle self-harming emotions, beliefs, behaviours, etc.
Consequently it can also produce feelings within you of:
- Make smart(er) decisions
- Develop your true potential
- Giving empathy to customers, staff, people, etc.
- Build better relationships
- Feeling safe
- Expressing your own inner-love
- Deep happiness
- Healing / convalesce
- Protect against bad influences
- Have a sense of belonging
just to mention a few
Why do we concentrate on CEO’s, business-owners?
This can lead to self-harm (self-endangerment) as they can often become isolated and lonely, they can stand under great mental pressure and can become increasingly out-of-touch with emotional / psychological needs of employees, wife/husband and their own.
Every man and woman, business-owner, professional, academic, CEO, etc. should develop their own Mental Manager in their heads.
This is important and vital for the journey through life.The subconscious mind with its learned childhood fears & traumas; its programming, dysfunctional beliefs and so on, often produces too powerful emotions, even life-threatening emotions. We need extra help !
Therefore, we need to develop our important Mental Manager through counselling to:
Stop the Abuse, Self-harm, Ruin, Domestic violence
Stop your fear, pain, anger,shame, mental stress, etc.
Stop damage & (hidden) financial ruin
Start managing difficult, even dangerous emotions / situations
Start your protection and healing
Start asking for help to make smart(er) decisions
Feeling tormented & distressed?
Fed up of being abused?
Frustrated with the Domestic violence, the pain of nasty surprises, deception, bullying, manipulation, etc?
Tired of Abuse, Self-harm such as emotional pain, financial ruin, wasting time, money & effort within relationships or at work?
Imagine you could transform your life
Imagine you could create happiness, enjoy a good Quality of Life
Imagine that your heart is full with love & joy, producing good health
Image you could live & work in peace, free of pain, stress and pressures
How to prevent your worst nightmare?
Throw away the chains of risk-taking, trial & error, possible ruin, abuse and self-harm
Free yourself from the psychological prison of insecurities, shyness, emotional pain, anger, guilt, mental pressures, hatred, domestic violence and self-harm
Start enjoying life again with the sweet feelings of happiness and confidence
Smile to yourself about your emotional success
Become confident to detect deceptions, ruse, etc.
Become also confident to handle gullibility, naivety, excessive romantic feelings, to stand up for your (emotional) rights, to get rid off emotional pain & suffering, mental pressures /stress, to manage domestic violence, to repair a broken relationship
– No driving to the counselling practice,
– No annoying questions from receptionist
– No embarrassment
– We use Skype (web-camera) for counselling, therefore
– stay at home or in your office
What if you do nothing?
For that reason,allow your Mental Manager to grow through counselling.
Change your attitudes, self-image, self-confidence, your emotions, your knowledge through counselling to prevent ruin, abuse, domestic violence and self-harm
Self-harm,- hidden, silent, unknown – (just to mention a few):
- Naivety (trusting too easily, thus losing your assets to an unloving scheming scammer)
- Anger, hatred resulting in ugly Domestic violence (out of anger: breaking the law, AVO, going to court / jail, etc.)
- Crippling Financial ruin (e.g. gruelling court costs)
- Neglecting Customers / clients rights
- Infuriating, provoking & fighting with customers / clients/ staff
- Lack of empathy towards the needs of customers, staff, colleagues
- Undeveloped personal potential due to bad self-image
- Self-neglect (not standing up for your emotional / legal rights)
- Bad partner-choices – e.g. dating a psychopath out of desperation
- Naïve choice of lovers
- Exploitation ( through bullying, sexual blackmail, deceptions, manipulations of a psychopath – partner or boss)
- Unwanted pregnancies (e.g. paying high percentage of your income in child support)
- Loss of family life through painful separation / divorce
- (possible) PTSD ( post traumatic stress disorder) after a gruelling custody battle
- Poisonous Suicidal thoughts
- Great loss of Quality of Life, loss of employment, loss of personal potential, great unhappiness
- Wasting money, time and great efforts through a risky trial & error approach
— Not to forget the improvements to your physical health
“Don’t put off your development, because ignoring, denying and retaliation to these painful feelings can often result in more emotional pain, anger, frustration, worries, stress, abuse, self-harm, domestic violence”
♦ Do you –unknowingly- self-harm when searching for love within relationships or doing your best at work?
♦ Is your relationship filled with pain, fear, anger, violence?
What would it take for you to seek help?
Don’t become weaker, more vulnerable
Invest in your life and future.
Make an appointment with us today or –even easier- send us SMS 0405 833 415 & we will call you back
Please note: Make sure you are safe ( away from the abuser) when you decide to change your life / seek help.
You need to want to stop the Abuse, Self-harm and emotional pain
You need the desire to heal the pain and thus, change your life
You want to aspire to become- increasingly- confident to protect yourself against Abuse and Self-harm
Develop your Mental Manager within your subconscious to protect yourself
Protect yourself from further abuse, emotional pain, rage, ridicule, double-pain ( losing money and children), revengeful thoughts, loss of potential, etc.
Protect your happiness, life, success, money, etc. from bullies, cruel scammers, gold-diggers control-freaks, sadists, damaging people with mental illness (personality disorders) such as narcissism, bi-polar, border-line, (undiagnosed) psychopaths, and so on
Millions of years of human evolution shaped the human subconscious mind to quickly escape from danger,such as, quickly recognising enemies faces, and also to ensure the survival of the human species through sex.
For the fortunate, the childhood was the cradle of good self-esteem, good self- preservation, good memories; for the unfortunate, it was a place of trauma, lack of love, neglect and may be (sexual) abuse.
Sadly, the human subconscious mind has not developed to automatically detect mental illness, a liar, gold-diggers, psychopaths, scammers, nor to make smart decisions when we feel ridiculed, screamed at, bullied and even when we become intoxicated with hot and passionate romantic & sexual emotions.
We need to obtain this information through counselling in order to develop our Mental Manager. so we are able to confront and tackle strong emotions and desires within ourselves which can lead to abuse, ruin, self-harm and domestic violence
Again, we make it very, very easy !
No driving to the practice, no annoying questions from receptionist, no embarrassment. We use Skype for counselling. So, stay at home or office.
We counsel via Skype:
Angry / aggressive men & women who want to remove their tendency for domestic violence e.g. in order to keep their family
Bullied / submissive men & women who have difficulties to Stand Up for their emotional rights
Inexperienced men & women who love to be in a relationship with a partner
Men & women who have a problem with their self-image and /or self-esteem, which effects their life, work, relationships.
Men & women who are too naïve, impulsive, gullible when interacting (romantically) with an attractive partner
Men & women who suffer from emotional pain, mental pressure, suicidal thoughts and are in urgent need for emotional help
Important to remember:
Instead that you hurt / ruin your life through Abuse and Self-harm, for example through a painful separation / divorce, gruelling custody battle, depression, suicide, intense emotional pain, financial ruin, etc, you must change your beliefs, attitudes and behaviour about yourself and when searching for love through counselling.
Instead of Suffering, Abuse and Self-harm – Why not release the Good Force within you
How to develop the Mental Manager within your subconscious and heal the pain, protect yourself and become confident ?
YOU decide-out of pure self-interest – to UNSHACKLE yourself from self-harming beliefs and the effects of the abuser
Self-protection through confidence
Release the good force within you
You are more then your previous mistakes
Invest into your life
Put passion into your life to get more out of your life
Heal your emotional pain
You feel happier and more content
You become emotional attractive to women
You feel more positive, optimistic, and energetic to obtain your goals
You become more loving, caring to your dream-woman and future children, i.e. increase their happiness
Liberate the potential of your mind
What will you lose if you never change?
You could lose everything !!
Your Mental manager stays small and underdevelop, scared and vulnerable.
Moreover it could create a painful self-destruction of self-esteem.
Your love- potential decreases by your subconscious negative programming
Bad judgement about other people’s intentions
Impaired self-fulfillment through bad decision-making about love, sex, partner’s love & sex, etc.
Leave yourself open to financial & psychological exploitation through gullibility, impulsiveness, love-addiction, etc.
Soul-destroying actions of retaliation against abuse through Domestic Violence, even Murder / Suicide
Painful unhappiness, loss of job, may be eating disorders, heart attacks and so on,
Separation, divorce followed often by financial ruin and loss of contact with your children
Wouldn’t it be nice to wake up with your dream partner without the risk of being abused?
Change to ‘Old’ you into the ‘New’ you through counselling, in other words:
Develop the Mental Manager within your head.
What value is my counselling service to you?
Our goals are to help you to:
Become safe and stay successful
Develop your Mental Manager within your subconscious
Protect yourself from harmful influences from your subconscious
Manage difficult, dangerous emotions/ situations
Handle anger, fear, emotional pain, shame, hatred, etc
Make smart(er) rational decisions
Develop true potential
Moreover, it helps you to learn to protect yourself against harmful beliefs within the subconscious,
More courage to stand up for your (emotional) rights
Save money, time and effort by avoiding a risky trial and error approach
Better self-judging as-protection against financial abuse, bullying, blackmail, etc.
Make better partner-choices
Overcome shyness, fear, anger from past relationships
Heal your emotional pain effectively through professional guidance
Become streetwise to combat naivety
Release your inner-love to become emotional attractive
Become assertive to Stand Up for your Rights ( manage to say ” No” ) against partner(s), who want to intimidate you to gain control over you ( & your money)
Become happier, fulfilled within yourself as you start to develop your potential – in a constructive way
My counselling service
It is tailored to vulnerable clients
It is based on various psychology therapies.
1.) Counselling via Skype ( client- counsellor professional relationship)
2.) Our Recommendation via Skype (We listen to your concerns /situation; for example your partner deceived you. We suggest ideas of self-help;
3.) Email assistance: available after on session of counselling or recommendation.
Let us help you
If you are experiencing Pain, Abuse,Self-harm, Domestic violence in your your life and are overcome / disabled by emotional pain, anger, guilt, mental pressures, etc., don’t wait any longer.
Don’t become weaker, more vulnerable.
Make an appointment with us today or –even easier- send us SMS 0416 867 527, and we will call you back
One session of Counselling / Recommendation $ AUD 150.00 per hour
One Email assistance ( maxi. 500 words) $ AUD 55.00
3Counsellor Norbt Henke beNorbert
I, Norbert Henke, am determined to create friendly high quality professional counselling service with clients via Skype to help you develop the New You
Become confident to change your life.
Enjoy our video interviews of International women how they think and feel
Excerpt of my DVD “What Men should know about Women”
Even I, a counsellor, is not free of pain and emotional disaster. Despite all the good intentions, it is sometimes not possible to make sense ‘out of life’. During a – often painful, dysfunctional- relationship, many beliefs about women, men, sex, and relationships have slowly developed in our minds. Some of our self-esteem has been eroded through pain and negativity. These beliefs create our emotions, which either give us love and energy or drain us through negativity. In my opinion, everyone was experienced a “dysfunctional” and painful relationship should seek counselling; just to ensure that the new relationship is free of emotional left-overs from the previous partner. Counsellor Norbert Henke, Dipl. Pro. Counselling, likes to help men with women to build confidence and happy relationships. Go to Frohmood.com for more info.
Excerpt of my DVD “What Men should know about Women”
In order to explain this, let us look at a person whose soul is free and unrestricted. We might think that this person is very independent and happy, and we are mostly correct. So how did this person’s soul become free? This person had a childhood like all of us. He was told information about himself, his surroundings, and the world. Some info was correct, some was half-correct, some was false, and some was very damaging to his mind. Now this child grew into an adult, and his damaging child programming were still causing negative results in his life, such as poor self-esteem, anger, relationship breakdowns, etc. It becomes clear that repairing our emotions is an important and essential part for our self-development, as the goal is to gradually free our soul. Counsellor Norbert Henke, Dipl. Pro. Counselling, likes to help men with women to build confidence and happy relationships. Go to Frohmood.com for more info.
What turns a woman sexually on?
Anastasia, a Russian woman, is so kind to tell us her opinion. Beautiful women become more attracted to men who understand how a woman thinks and feels. Fools enter where angels fear to tread. In other words, without good information and preparations the risks can be high to repeat previous mistakes again. Knowing how women – Russian women – think and feel is a good way to reduce this risk. Counsellor Norbert Henke, Dipl. Pro. Counselling, and Olesya Pridannikova- Henke, a Russian woman, are enthusiastic to help men with Russian women through recommendation, information, consultation, and counselling.
Can a bald headed man be attracted to a woman?
Tanya, a Russian woman, young and passionate at heart, tells us what she thinks about the question. Precaution is sometimes a smart attitude. Gathering information to make informed decision is on the forefront of successful men. I think any man who wants to build a relationship with a woman needs many questions answered, just to shed some light into how women, at this moment a Russian woman, think and feel. Counsellor Norbert Henke, Dipl. Pro. Counselling, and Olesya Pridannikova- Henke, a Russian woman, are enthusiastic to help men with Russian women through recommendation, information, consultation, and counselling.
What do you think of a woman who lets her partner buy expensive rings / things he cannot afford?
Olesya, an authentic young Russian woman from the heart of the Ural Mountains in Russia answers a question, which many men will find very interesting. Listening to a woman’s opinion is very informative, because the understanding – how women think and feel – is an important part of relationship building, reduction of fear and development of trust. The idea to help men to understand women, especially Russian women, sprung to life after my gruelling divorce. My goal is to inform, because through information, we are able to make informed decisions and good decision-making is important for any man, in particular in regards to women, Russian women, and Internet dating.
Is it easy to sexually provoke a man?
Ekaterina, a Russian woman, tackles this question, which many men find rather interesting. Decision-making is very important, especially in the beginning of the relationship. No man wants to lose his girlfriend.
Men who want to make their girlfriends happy do good to know how women think and feel. An answer to a question can avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and promote empathy. Counsellor Norbert Henke, Dipl. Pro. Counselling, and Olesya Pridannikova- Henke, a Russian woman, are enthusiastic to help men with Russian women through recommendation, information, consultation, and counselling.
More videos of women: Olesya, Ekaterina, Tanja, Anastasia
Anastasia: Is it easy to sexually provoke a man?
Anastasia: What is a good lover?
Ekaterina: What is a good lover?